2021 made me STRONG!

 I know I am writing a blog after a so long time. I was neither active on Instagram nor on youtube nor on any other social media platform. I am blessed to have you guys, many of you have DM me on Instagram, that is everything fine? Am I okay? What happened why am I not posting any content anywhere? I have never imagined that anyone of YOU will even remember me after 5-6 months. I am speechless, I am feeling so grateful, and that's why I took my laptop and start writing. 

Today I am going to write whatever is in mind, whatever I have learned, from the successes, failures, or problems that I have faced this year. We are in December, it's the month in which we all love to make a list of things that what we have learned in the whole year, what mistakes have we done, how we get up again to fight against the odds and many more.

So, in today's article, I am going to share all those learnings which made me strong, all the important things that we all have to keep in our minds.

# This year was full of ups and downs. 

This year, I have faced many failures, many health issues, different-different insecurities, in short, I dealt with many problems, yet I am happy today because I know life is another name of 'struggle'. And now I have fallen in love with the problems because all the problems help me to grow emotionally, mentally, spiritually and every time I feel that there is some power that helps me to stand again, which helps me to be involved in the beautiful present again, which helps me to realize that how much blessed I am. 

I know we all face bad days, we all face unexpected failures, some days we all deal with the feelings of being worthless. But trust me, we all can get over these kinds of feelings. And it's okay to feel low sometimes.

If I summarise, then I can say all the lessons that I have learned,  will surely help one of you, and I am sure many of you will also be able to relate to it. Let me make it simple for you, so the learnings are as follows:

1) It's okay to fail. 

I have faced many unexpected failures this year. That was the time when I started hating myself. When I started hating my life. I started feeling worthless. But within time, I realised that we never have to take failures personally. We all face it, and it's totally fine to face a failure. We only need to keep in mind that, "Life is a game, where sometimes we fail and sometimes we succeed and it's not in our control, but something which is in our control that is to play". And at that time, when I started coming out from that phase of my life, at that time, I have made a video too on this topic, because I felt most of us, do really face unexpected failures, which totally break us. At that moment, sometimes, we need someone who can understand us and relate with us. 

If you want to check the video, click on it: How To Deal With Failures!

2) Never take yourself too seriously. 

In January 2021, I have taken some decisions and have given some time period (or I say limited time) to achieve something, I can say I was too strict with myself at that time, and I think that was one of the reasons behind my failure. I pressurized myself the most to extend my limits. It's good we all have to work hard to extend our limits, but also we need to take care of our mental health. We are the only person for us who can actually understand whether we are happy or not. 

2) It's okay to not get what you want.

3) It's okay to be not okay.

4) There is some power that always helps us to stand again.

5) It's okay to be alone sometimes.

6) Never take yourself too seriously. 

7) There is always something to learn. We are living in the information age, we are surrounded by the ocean of opportunities. Always keep learning.

8) Our family is an asset. They are the only ones who will always stand with us.

Life is a roller coast ride. Life is a combination of ups and downs, if you are continuously facing downs, then be assured that that you will surely be going to get the best 'up' of your life.

Be patient.

It's important to be light with yourself. It's important to forgive yourself. It's important to be with yourself. Don't shout at yourself.

It's okay to lose people, it's okay to lose a job, it's okay to lose money, you will surely get this again. Just believe in yourself. You only need to believe in yourself.

We all face bad times. 

If no one is understanding you, not a problem, but if you are not able to understand yourself, then it's not good.

Always keep in mind that whatever we do in our life, we do that for happiness, and if we are losing our happiness while doing that thing, then what are we doing. 

Don't be so hard with yourself. When you start loving yourself, everything starts seeming great and positive for you.

I know that times come when we feel that we are the worst person. we are good for nothing. we are worthless. But trust me, you are great. You will surely rock one day.

It's okay if your plan doesn't work. Sometimes, it's okay to go with the flow.

Work for peace and happiness. Money is the byproduct of your hardwork. 

If I am happy when I chose the easy path

If I can get happiness while doing something easy, then why will I not choose that path. Who is that person, who said to us that we need to choose the tough path to get the success, then only we will be happy? All these are myths. 

You can choose something very very very easy, which gives happiness to you. 

Who said this?

The path here is not important, the main point is that either you are happy or not, either you are relaxed or not, why to chose the tough path if you are not getting the peace, then why to chose the tough path 

The path is 

then why are you running towards the hard path instead you can choose the easy one too. why are pressuring yourself, that your friends or your colleague or your relatives are doing great, why are you comparing yourself with others, be your own competitor and your own supporter too.

There were some days I was not able to walk even for 15 mins, I was not abe to drive, I wasn't able to stand for 5 minutes. But that time has passed, time passes by. 

"Tough times don't define you, they refine you"

1)Family is an Asset.

-> You can never understand how much a family actually do for you, until the time comes. Your family members are the only ones who will accept you as the way you are, they accept you even if you did something bullshit, they are always by your side, they are the contact supporters,